Four Questions for LGBTQ+ Liberation

Check out a creative take on the traditional four questions — and answers — asked by the four children.

April 3, 2025

By Jon Cohen

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1. A Question Someone Might Not Know Who or How to Ask: Why should I, as a Jewish person, care about LGBTQ+ rights?

  • Jewish values emphasize justice (tzedek), human dignity (kavod), and loving our neighbor (v’ahavta l’reiacha kamocha)
  • The history of Jewish activism in civil rights, labor movements, and immigration justice aligns with fighting for LGBTQ+ equality
  • Many LGBTQ+ people are part of the Jewish community — this is about advocating for our own

2. A Simple Question: How can I support LGBTQ+ rights if I don’t identify as LGBTQ+?/take action with my local Jewish community?

  • Being an ally means listening, learning, and using your voice to amplify LGBTQ+ issues
  • Show up for LGBTQ+ events, sign petitions, and support inclusive policies in your synagogue and workplace
  • Challenge harmful language and assumptions in your community and family spaces
    • Have hard conversations — discomfort is part of solidarity
    • Push past fear — Doing the right thing isn’t always easy, but it’s necessary
  • Commit to the long-term —This isn’t just a crisis moment; it’s a movement
  • Show up beyond your immediate circles – Build relationships outside your usual spaces

For advocating within your Jewish institution:

For individuals:

3. A Rebellious Question: What are the biggest threats to LGBTQ+ rights right now?

  • Legislative attacks on trans rights
    • Bans on gender-affirming healthcare
    • Anti-trans sports bans
    • Book bans and curriculum censorship that erase LGBTQ+ history and identities
  • The rise in hate crimes and misinformation targeting LGBTQ+ people

4. A Wise Question: How do I respond when people use Judaism to argue against LGBTQ+ inclusion?/What’s the best way to engage people unsure or hesitant about LGBTQ+ advocacy?

  • Focus on shared values: dignity, fairness, and community
  • Use personal stories — people are more likely to empathize with lived experiences
  • Offer clear, simple actions they can take, like signing a petition or attending an event
  • Jewish tradition is vast and diverse; many Jewish texts and scholars emphasize justice, dignity, and inclusion
  • The concept of “pikuach nefesh” (saving a life) teaches us that protecting LGBTQ+ people from harm should be a priority
  • Historically, interpretations of Jewish law have evolved—just as Judaism has embraced new understandings of ethics and justice
  • Resource: Talking About Anti-Trans Legislation Through a Jewish Lens