By Rabbi Eliana Kayelle
It has become custom in some Jewish communities to add new symbols to the seder plate in honor of our own identities or causes that are important to us. For me, trans liberation covers both, and it deserves its spot on the Passover table. Last Passover I added a dandelion to the seder plate for the first time. This year, as trans people continue to face vicious attacks in the United States and around the world, I am solidifying it as tradition.
Whether you pick a flower from your yard, use dandelion greens from the market, or find some dandelion tea — add some dandelion to your seder plate for trans liberation and celebration!
A dandelion on the seder plate
For trans love and celebration
Trans joy deserves to take up space
While we move from narrow place to liberation
Dandelions transition too
First they appear as bright as the sun
Then the flower needs to catch its breath
For its journey has just begun
The petals close while new seeds form
And yellow becomes green
Before you know it the time has come
It lets its new self be seen
The stalk grows higher to reach the wind
While new whisps blossom and fly
They’re carried away finding soft spots to land
Bringing new life instead of goodbye
Trans beauty and courage have the same effect
When we’re seen, we give hope a chance
We are here. We always have been. We’ll continue to be.
In community. In laughter. In dance.
So a dandelion on the seder plate
For trans love and celebration
Trans joy deserves to take up space
While we move from narrow place to liberation