I wrote the following resource about two years ago. Re-reading it this year, I am reminded that this is not a new fight- the fight for LGBTQ+ belonging. Things have been hard, and many of us are preparing for them to get worse. Legislation that seeks to reduce and take away trans folks’ access to gender affirming healthcare and civil rights shortens the days, not just for trans folks, but for us all. In light of these heightened attacks, in addition to targeted attacks on Jewish communities around the world, what will you do to fight to lengthen all our days? Join us…

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As we journey towards the end of the secular calendar year and deep into winter, a midrash (or, what I often refer to as “rabbinic fan fiction”) I learned about in rabbinical school comes to mind. It goes like this:

“The Sages taught: When Adam the first human saw that the day was progressively diminishing, he said: Woe is me; perhaps because I sinned the world is becoming dark around me and will ultimately return to the primordial state of chaos and disorder…

(Avodah Zarah 8a)”

This midrash hits me in the gut. I imagine how Adam must have felt when he first experienced the shortening of days. The rapid onset of cold and shadows must have been terrifying and could only be a consequence of something terrible, and so he concludes it’s due to his own sinning. 

This is such a human instinct: to try to make sense of the reason why bad things happen in the world. Sometimes we can point to a clear cause, but more often, there’s no coherent answer. There are many theological debates about the problem of suffering in this world and where it originates. But I’m less interested in this conversation. Instead, I’ve always found comfort not in the question of why suffering exists, but rather, how will we meet it? And even further, how will we care for one another in this reality, where suffering is as inevitable as a sunset?

When I think about the world right now, I remember the ways in which we as humans create mechanisms that cause suffering to each other. I think about the anti-trans and LGBQ+ bills being drafted and passed across our nation. I think about how these hateful pieces of legislation darken our days and serve to shorten the lives of so many trans folks. These are sins that truly bring about chaos and disorder in the world and cause harm to thousands.

But there is potential for change. We have the opportunity to “lengthen our days.” This past year, Miss Major Griffin, legendary trans activist, died at 78. I remember feeling sadness but also deep joy to hear of a black trans woman dying at an old age, surrounded by beloveds. Her days were cherished, celebrated, lengthened. I dream of a world in which this is not a remarkable thing—in which trans children become elders. We have the capacity to make this world.

In order to do so, we must speak out against hateful legislation and bigotry. We must listen to those whose identities are being attacked directly and join together to create spaces of refuge. I find comfort in taking action and seeing our Jewish leaders speak out to protect me and those I hold dear. I hope you can, too.

This Hanukkah, I ask you and urge you to keep asking yourself the question, “What am I doing to lengthen the days of LGBTQ+ people in my community and the world?“

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