I've been an ally for 35 years, and have learned more in the last 10 years. Two of my kids are queer, and I was an active member of the Conservative/Masorti Movement's Social Justice Commission's LGBTQ+ subcommittee from 2022-25. I initiated Pride Shabbat at our congregation, and co-ran our Pride Seder with the local Reform rabbi. I was thrilled to officiate at my first gay wedding a few years ago.
Whatever I don't know yet, I'm happy to learn.