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Cantor Stefano Iacono (he/him/his)
Associate Cantor
Reform
Congregation Rodeph Sholom
New York City, New York
United States

About

I came to the cantorate with a love of political and social theory. After majoring in Women's, Gender, and Sexuality Studies, I have dedicated most of my spiritual life to unearthing "missed" opportunities of queerness in our tradition, especially in the Torah.

I am working on a project tracing relational dynamics in scripture (i.e. between kings and their subjects, prophets and "am Yisrael", etc.) through the lens of queer experience. Ancient queers existed, but how were they encoded?

Listing Details

Clergy answered "Yes" to the following

  • Trained on LGBTQ+ identities within past five years
  • Experience officiating conversions for transgender and nonbinary individuals with a sensitivity to the wide range of relationships to gender and embodiment that transgender and nonbinary individuals may have
  • Experience officiating gender-expansive b-mitzvah
  • Familiar with gender-expansive Hebrew liturgical and linguistic options
  • Approaches the presence of LGBTQ+ people as the norm rather than an exception in Jewish communal life
  • Experience celebrating LGBTQ+ specific life-cycle rituals such as coming out and renaming
  • Person-centered and LGBTQ+ positive approach to Jewish law and tradition
  • Comfortable consistently using they/them pronouns and neopronouns
  • Speaks or writes regularly on LGBTQ+ themes
  • Experience in pastoral/spiritual care of LGBTQ+ individuals
  • Experience officiating LGBTQ+ weddings

Clergy answered "I'm Still Learning" to the following

  • Experience in end-of-life care for LGBTQ+ individuals